Saturday, September 26, 2015

Why Romance Dominates in Philippines


After work, I sit on my throne (my sofa) and turned on the TV, I noticed, there is only one Pinoy soap operas was all about. When I looked for Tagalog novels at a bookstore to read, I see nothing but only one genre that rules among all. Romance. As an aspiring writer, it's undeniable that the genre is the powerhouse of all. In fact, no matter how many people said it's cliche, still a lot of us watch or read love stories. Of course, love is the greatest thing in this world, it's the source of joy, unity and peace aside of the "kilig" it gives to the audience. As the line in the song said, "you never live until you love." But, it's not the thing I explain here but its overall dominance in Philippine cinematography and literature, as if we have forgotten the other genres. I observe it's the only mean-stream here. Prove to that, romance novels get more reads than anything else of Filipino readership in Wattpad. If you talk about foreign films and fiction, they like romance as well but you can see many also consider fantasy, action, science fiction, horror, etc. It's not that I dislike romance, actually, it's one of my favorite, but like how menudo my favorite dish, I would also lost my appetite if that's the only meal I eat everytime.
So how does romantica is the overall dominant in Philippine art? Upon asking this to myself I came up to an answer. I do believe it's because of our conservative culture. We were preached sex is evil especially outside in marriage. Lust is a deadly sin, no one will question. In fact, married couples still get even back-stabs rumors if many will see they're sweat. From that thinking, we see malice and intrigue in romantic relationship which could lead to sensual or sexual affairs. We see it's bone chilling and evoking because of that perception. But, malice and intrigue makes the romance more interesting aside from the emotional satisfaction it could give. I'm a conservative but I think it's always the best to be an open-minded and to explore in different areas of life. Spread the good vibes, shower the love.

Monday, September 21, 2015

The Poem that I only just post he he

The Revolutionist

I want to see, but you put and jailed me at the dark.
You made me blind by covering my eyes with black.
Never contented, you stood beside and stabbed me at my back.

You're in the pedestal because of your greediness.
I'm on the mud because of my foolishness.
And now, I'm awake, still you pull me at nothingness.

I have the strength to slice you by my sword.
I have a wisdom to destroy you by my word.
In order to see a new beginning in this world.

And now we're here, run brothers! Run!
Run, after the bullets of the gun.
Run until we will see the rising sun.

But suddenly, I heard the sound of bang!
A bullet fly and hit through my lung.
Before I got unconscious, I heard my brothers sang.

Saturday, September 19, 2015

Our Fantasies


Sometimes, I had a daydream. I always thought how my life suppose to be. They were mostly impossible to reach because of opportunity or time that had been flashed by the waves. Imagining them may let me help escape my flaws in life, but somehow, it led me more disappointed. The more I'm being a denial on my current situation. The more I became a loser. Then, I realized, it didn't help, it just dragged me down. Looking in the mirror, I challenged myself. I accepted for who I am. I used my weaknesses as reminders and strength as enhancers. After that, I feel the self fulfillment when facing the reality and it improves my life.  After all, when you make up yourself, you can have a life that's better than fantasy.